My Mother’s Funeral Services – How My Ex Wife Denied Me The Right To Be In Company Of My Children In A Time Of Mourning And How Her Acts Of Evilness Interfered With My Final Farewells To My Mother

My mother had been sick for sometime when she passed away on August 1^st 2009 at the age of 82.  The day before as luck would have it, I was making the two hour trip to see her in the nursing home when I had an accident and had to abandon my trip.  The following day I got the news that my mother passed away. 

Upon learning of my mother’s passing, I contacted my ex-wife and left her a message.  In my message I told her of my mothers passing and asked that I be able to take the children with me to the services so they could pay respect to their grandmother.  I never heard back from my ex. 

I made the two hour trip without my children to Arlington Massachusetts so that I could pay my respects to my mother and to be with my family.  I was informed by my brothers when the calling hours would be and when the funeral service would be. 

Upon arriving to the calling hours at the funeral home, I quickly discovered that my ex was there with my sister and her husband.  The same sister and brother-in-law that embezzled money from my elderly mother and robber her blind when she was not of a sound mind to know better.  The same Sister and brother-in-law who gave money to my ex-wife during the divorce proceedings so that she could continue to fight with me.  One can only guess where the money came from since my sister had control over my mother’s money. 

Not only was my ex-wife present but my two children were there too.  At the time they were six and ten years old.  The boys wouldn’t even acknowledge me.  As much as I tried to talk to them, they would run from me.  They would literally grab onto their mother and hide behind her.  It was as if I had been abusive to the children.  It was an embarrassment for my family to witness this. 

Unbeknownst to me, I found out that one of my older cousins had gone into the bathroom and had seen my oldest son in there.  He asked him why he was treating his father so mean.  My son of course ran away. 

My ex-wife in front of everyone had literally dragged the kids over to see me.  They of course wanted nothing to do with me.  My two children who had been my best of buddies since their birth were now pitted against me.  My ex being sick intentionally made a scene to show others in my family that my children wanted nothing to do with me. 

The following day at the funeral services, my ex-wife’s personality disorders really were shinning through.  Her family had come to the services.  Her mother, father and sister were all present.  My ex made sure that she went into the church and sat with the children right in front and alongside my immediate family.  Of course she made sure she and the boys were sitting away from me. 

After the service, we all went outside to go to the cemetery to lay my mother to rest next to my father.  In front of the church, my ex-wife’s sister came up to me and told me that she was sorry about my mother.  I had noticed that my ex was in the immediate area but avoided me like the black plague. 

Once I was inside the limousine, my brother told me that he had gone up to my ex and thanked my ex and her family for coming to the services.  He told me that my ex was crazy.  He personally thanked her for coming and she stated something like, he didn’t need to thank her for being there, since she was in her own words was “Family.”  She then ran off crying.  Does this sound like a sane person?  I divorced her.  She is not family yet she has no concept of reality and believes that she still is.  My ex is so sick she just doesn’t get it.  She is delusional in her thinking just as she was when we were married. 

At the graveside, again my children avoided me like the black plague.  I couldn’t even get close to them without them clinging to their mother. 

My ex-wife is pure evil.  The fact that she wouldn’t even return my call when I left her a message about my mother’s passing (the children’s grandmother).  She then shows up to the services and funeral unbeknownst to me and makes a scene with my brother and encourages the children to have nothing to do with me. 

A person that acts the way my ex-wife did is truly sick and deserves to be committed to an insane asylum.  How is it that Master David Forrest condoned her behavior during the divorce and encouraged her to continue to act in this manner?  How is it that Douglas Thornton the GAL also condoned her sick behavior too?  Worst of all how is it that her scumbag attorney Jaye Rancourt empowered her and encouraged this behavior?  These people are the scum of the earth and have no morals.  They are true evil and need to be stopped. 

After the services were over and everyone had left, I returned to my mother and father’s gravesite so that I could have a peaceful moment alone with them and without interference from my ex.  I knelt on the ground and spoke with mom and dad and asked them to please watch over my children and to help them in any way that they could.  As hard as it is to not have my children with me, I know that they are being watched over by their grandparents.  I love you mom and dad.  I love you boys.  Someday boys you will hopefully see through all the lies that your mother has told you about me and you will see me for who I really am, your loving Dad.