Alienation Of Your Children Is A Tough Thing To Deal With During The Holiday Season - This Holiday Season Give Thanks To God For What You Have. Don’t Dwell On What You Have Lost – We Owe It To Our Children To Forgive And Be Strong

As I sat at the Thanksgiving table this year listening to the blessing, I found myself saying a silent prayer for my children. 

I didn’t dwell on the fact that my children’s minds were taken from me by a mother that knows no boundaries.  I didn’t find myself dwelling on everything that I lost.  I didn’t find myself thinking of how unfair life is.  Instead I found myself giving thanks to God for everything that I have. 

Many of us are fighting to change the family court system and are trying to make things fairer so that both parents can have equal parenting time.   The unfortunate thing is that this may take many years.  Many of our children may no longer be children when this happens.  We will have missed out on the Thanksgivings and Christmases of their youth.

Fathers Deserve Equal Protections - A Letter Posted On The Keene Sentinel

Fathers deserve equal protections

(From a letter to the Keene Sentinel)

Posted: Sunday, October 2, 2011 9:00 am

Fathers deserve equal protections

An American tragedy, rarely reported by the media, is how unfairly many divorced fathers are treated in the Family Court.

The court justifies this, claiming to act in the best interests of children. Is it in the best interest of children to put their fathers in jail when Daddy has lost his job, can’t find work, and falls behind in his support payments? Why aren’t the courts flexible, especially in today’s economy?

While it is a father’s responsibility to support his children, it is the court’s execution of this principle that is often so disturbing.

The court’s intransigence can extend to men who are not fathers, too. Recently, DNA proved a man was not the biological father. He was ordered to keep on paying. This is justice?

Govabuse Is Holding Nationwide Protest On Family Court System Friday August 12, 2011 – See Below To Go To Their Website For Details And On How You Can Participate

Govabuse Nationwide Protest

“Government Abuse IS Child Abuse for Profit”  

When:  Friday, August 12, 2011        

Where: See State/PLC tab for your area

Who: United States- Child/Family Rights Groups

Why:“We the People”
                        are no longer tolerating;

·        Unjust Laws

·    TAXPAYER dollars (billions) used to separate, and financially demolish families.

We the People” demand reformation of:

·        OUR FAMILY COURT SYSTEMS including:

·        Assigned Judges- (must be abolished)

·        Court Appointed Guardian-ad-litem

(must be abolished-severely limited at a minimum)

·        Family courts / records must be made public

·        Court Gag orders are a violation of 1^st amendment

·        Adoption incentive payments (must be abolished)

Re; Adoption / Safe Families Act 1997

Every effort must be made for children to stay with Grandparents / family members instead of foster care.

·        Grandparents / family must have visitation rights without current criminal treatment

·        Families must be given assistance instead of removing their

Children example; removal due to gas shut-off

·        Parents must be restored freedoms to raise their children

·        Immediate access in all cases for children’s records

·        Option to have a Jury, when requested in family courts

We the People” demand reformation of:

OUR FAMILY COURT SYSTEM including:

Assigned Judges- must be abolished

·        We are stripped of our right to elect public servants (judges)

·        Assigned judges cannot be voted out of office as they are ‘assigned’ to hear cases after pretending to retire. 

·        They have zero incentive to administer justice or follow law or legal procedures because they cannot be voted out of office after they ‘retire’ THEREFORE, we have been stripped of our legal right to elect (vote) for our judges

·         Assigned judges  are ‘DOUBLE-DIPPING’.  Pretend to ‘retire’  

but are assigned to family court cases, collecting approx; $485.00 per ‘day’ while collecting their retirement pay- all paid by taxpayers

·        Court appointed guardian-ad-litem / advocate for child / lawyer for child

·        Child Protective Services aka; CPS/ DHS / DFS/DSS/Foster Care and Adoption Services

Click Here To Go To Govabuse Website!

NEW HAMPSHIRE                        

COUNTY:         MERRIMACK

PLC:                  Bobby Dickerson  

E-MAIL:           mailto:nhbdickerson@govabuse.org?subject=Protest Information

PROTEST         NEW HAMPSHIRE STATE CAPITOL

LOCATION:    

                             Concord, New Hampshire

Directions to Capitol;

http://www.gencourt.state.nh.us/misc/directions/

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NEW HAMPSHIRE                        

COUNTY:          HILLSBOROUGH

 PLC:                  Dorothy Knightly 

 E-MAIL:           mailto:nhdknightly@govabuse.org?subject=Protest Information

PROTEST         Hillsborough Probate Court

LOCATION:     #30 Spring Street

                   Nashua, New Hampshire 03061-0387

Negligence Runs Deep Many Levels Of The NH State Government, The Whole System Needs An Overhaul So That Peoples Constitutional Rights Are Protected - The Unhappy Grammy Speaks Out About Issues Of Her Grandchild Being Switched At Birth While In State Care

Whatever happened To The OTHER Isabella Switched at Birth In Nashua, NH Hospital? Documentation include's Testimony of DCYF Worker Melissa DeaneWhatever happened To The OTHER Isabella Switched at Birth In Nashua, NH Hospital?

As you all know, I posted a post on my blog pertaining to my granddaughter Isabella being switched at birth at a Nashua, NH Hospital. If you haven't read the post, it is located on the right side of my blog-

http://unhappygrammy-grandparentsblog.blogspot.com/2011/07/nashua-nh-hospital-gave-new-mother.html

Motivation For My Blog - I’M DOING IT FOR MY TWO BOYS AND FOR ALL THE CHILDREN AND THEIR FAMILYS THAT HAVE BEEN AFFECTED OR WILL BE AFFECTED BY PARENT ALIENATION - I Want Others To Be Able To Learn From History. Parent Alienation Is Child Abuse And It Needs To Stop!

Someday, my two boys will realize that their Dad loves them unconditionally and their mother played a significant role in keeping them from me by using Parent Alienation techniques. 

NH like all states has Child Abuse Laws.  There are also laws that mandate who has to report suspected abuse.  These laws are great but they fail to consider Parent Alienation abuse.  Below is a quick overview of the law. 

New Hampshire Child Abuse Laws

Code Section	169-C:3, 169-C:29, et seq.
What Constitutes Abuse	Sexual abuse, intentional physical injury, psychological injury such that child exhibits symptoms of emotional problems generally recognized to result from consistent mistreatment or neglect, or physical injury by other than nonaccidental means
Mandatory Reporting Required By	Physician, surgeon, medical examiner, psychiatrist, optometrist, psychologist, therapist, nurse, dentist, chiropractor, hospital personnel, Christian Science practitioner, school teacher or official, social worker, day care worker, foster/child care worker, law enforcement official, priest, minister, rabbi, any other person
Basis of Report of Abuse/neglect	Having reason to suspect that a child has been abused or neglected
To Whom Reported	Department of Health and Human Services
Penalty for Failure to Report or False Reporting	Knowing violation: misdemeanor

Right now, Parent Alienation (PA) is not considered child abuse in NH.  I am not sure if other states have made movements to make PA a form of abuse.  I suspect some states have had movement to make it abuse or are in stages of defining PA as abuse.  Because PA is not defined as child abuse in NH, there is no law requiring people to report it.  That means that our children who go to school, church, the doctors office, etc, never receive the benefit of being rescued by the Alienating Parent. 

We need to change the laws on PA.  There are lots of studies that show that it’s real.  Aside from studies, IT’S JUST PLAIN COMMON SENSE.  Mess with a young person’s mind and they will have issues their whole life if not treated by years of counseling. 

I hope that people will read my stories and learn from what has happened to me.  I hope that any alienating parent that reads my blog will think twice about what they are doing to their children.  Alienating a child from their parent may not immediately hurt as bad as hitting the child but someday the pain will be unbearable to them.  How do I know?  I am witnessing what it has already done to my children.  Children need both parents.  What will the cost of PA be to our children?  One can only imagine.  Some children will recover.  Some will overcome it.  Some will not.  Some will be effected by PA their whole lives.  Some I’m sure will even commit suicide because of it. 

If you have children and you read this please do me a favor.  Give them a hug for me and my boys and tell them that you love them.  Don’t ever speak ill of their other parent in front of them or to friends and family who will repeat your words.  No matter how much you may want to. 

Jaye Rancourt an Unethical New Hampshire Attorney who likes money more than her clients kids - Is an attorney who practices with the Law Firm of Brennan, Caron, Lenehan & Iacopino also known as BCLI located in Manchester NH

In the near future I will be posting information about Attorney Jaye Rancourt’s unethical and what I would consider to be criminal behavior. Please be aware that these are my opinions. You decide the facts.

I started this Blog because I feel that the public needs to know what kind of pathetic excuse of person Jaye Rancourt is and that there are thousands of attorneys out there just like her doing the same thing every day and I am hoping to reach out to others that have been wronged by these attorneys and the Divorce Court and/or Family Court.

My opinion of Jaye Rancourt is that she is a blood sucking thief. This woman represents my ex-wife and has had me in court repeatedly for frivolous nonsense. Read the book People of the Lie author M. Scott Peck. If you do you will understand that there are evil people all around us. These people are Lawyers, Doctors, Judges, Elected Officials, and Emergency Services Workers. They need to fit in with the rest of us. These people often seem to be outgoing. They are people who volunteer their time. They do this to look good. Do a Google search on Jaye Rancourt and read. Is she a person who fits this behavior? I believe so.

Three years ago I filed for a divorce. It seems my ex-wife has some issues that I brought up in court which I was told by the Judge I could not release to the public so will be respectful and I have to be careful about what I say about any records I have seen in regards to my ex-wife.

Since I can't discuss certain written and documented things about my ex-wife I will say that in my opinion my ex-wife is a sick person who, in my opinion exhibits patterns of behavior consistent with people who have personality disorders. Rancourt took advantage of this and fleeced my ex-wife and hurt my kids in the process of doing so. In the process she destroyed my ability to defend myself by running up the divorce cost well over 100K between both sides. At the time of my divorce, my ex and I had a combined salary of around 80K. We both made about 40K each. Rancourt purposely made my divorce a Hollywood divorce. She never once thought about my children which incidentally my ex-wife was successful in alienating them from me with Rancourt's help.

Did I mention that as of right now, my ex-wife owes Rancourt and her firm over 50k in legal fees? She is supposedly making payments of $300 to $400 a month. Guess where my child support goes? It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out directly into the pocket of Jaye Rancourt. Guess who appears to be padding their retirement by stealing money from children? Of course the court doesn’t see it this way. The court has admonished me for bringing this issue up and states that my ex-wife can spend her money how she sees fit. If you figure out the current payment plan, Rancourt will probable be paid off when my last child turns eighteen. No coincidence here is there?

My ex-wife threatened me in front of a marriage counselor that she was going to keep the children from me long before our divorce. Thanks to Rancourt it was all too easy. She will go to court and she will present the Judge with false or misleading facts. I have proof of her tactics and will be posting some of these public court documents as time permits.

Here is the way Rancourt begins her operation. She begins by taking an unsuspecting person who is down and turns on the charm and then fleeces them. It's just like the man that is walking in the park and gets beat up and mugged by two guys and has his watch and wallet stolen. The man stumbles to his feet, walks out of the park and sees two guys walking towards him. He says to the two guys please help me sirs, I’ve been mugged. They beat me up and stole my watch and wallet. The two men then drags this unsuspecting person back into the park, beats him up some more and then steal his shoes and shirt. Yes folks, this is the type of attorney you will be dealing with Rancourt.

Do not expect any reasoning with Jaye Rancourt. Every thing that happens between you and your ex will turn into World War III. She will make a mountain out of a mole hill and in the end you will lose. Great if you’re the person who hires her. I just hope if you do hire her or go up against her that you don't have kids. She will screw them up for life. I have many pictures of my kids being with me and happy. This was before Rancourt. Now my kids hate me. My 7 year old said to me he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. He said you don't care about me and I know what you did. You are a mean person. Does this sound like a seven year old talking? Of course it doesn’t. It was my ex talking. It scared me to hear this. The voice was my son’s but the person speaking was my ex. It was the same thing that she said to me numerously when we were married and she was delusional.

I am going to be filing a complaint with the Professional Conduct Committee on Jaye Rancourt. I would encourage others who have had negative experiences with her or any other attorney to do the same. Let’s hit these bad people where it counts which is in their wallets. I will assist anyone who needs help bringing a complaint against this attorney and/or her law firm BRENNAN, CARON, LENEHAN & IACOPINO because I feel it’s the right thing to do.

I will be posing an email address shortly with this blog. Please feel free to email me and by all means feel free to blog here. We all need to put our foot down and tell these types of attorneys and the courts that this behavior is not acceptable. No one has the right to become rich off of children’s emotional wellbeing..

In addition, when you come across Judges that are bad, make sure you make complaints and go to websites where you can blog about these bad judges. One such blog that I recently found is the Courthouse Forum.

Check out this link. http://www.courthouseforum.com/forums/view.php?id=1065123

I posted comments about Marital Master David Forrest. He is another contributing factor to Jaye Rancourt’s success. Forrest continually allows Rancourt’s nonsense even when there is no basis for it. My ex and Jaye Rancourt have done numerous things including lying to discredit me and have portrayed me as a deadbeat dad, my ex-wife has made false reports to police about me and they used this nonsense to keep my kids from me. Just before the divorce Rancourt and my ex-wife placed a frivolous Temporary Restraining Order on me as my ex claimed that I threatened to kill her. The restraining order hearing was to take place the same day that the divorce hearing was talking place. Before I had a chance to defend myself, Rancourt and my ex-wife withdrew the petition. Forrest should have admonished Rancourt and her client for this stunt. Yes stunt. Why else would someone do this during a divorce hearing when there has never been any such accusations against me by my ex-wife or anyone else for that matter? I’ve come to the conclusion that people in jail have more of a right to have a relationship with their children then I do. This Marital Master loves conflict and thrives from it. Jaye Rancourt and David Forest fuel each others fire. You can go to this website and use this site to make comments about judges and evaluate them. I would recommend you do so and fill out the surveys and leave your comments.

In regards to my children, I am not an overly religious person but if there is a god out there, I pray that someday he will reunite me with them. As for right now, I don’t have any resources to hire an attorney to assist with my objectives so I will have to go it by myself and with the help of my loving partner for without her strength, I don’t know how I would continue. Please support me and others like me by blogging and making complaints about the court system, the unethical attorneys and in anyway else you can. I am not the only one out there with the same problem. Together we can all try to make a difference and reunite parents and alienated children.

Check out this link. http://www.courthouseforum.com/forums/view.php?id=1065123